We Must Change Our Thinking About Our Women
Prolific writer and attorney Khadija has posted a most enlightening article as a guest writer at Black Women Blow The Trumpet entitled Why Black American Muslim Women Follow Muslim Ike Turners hosted by Rev. Lisa Vasquez. Her post brought eye opening information concerning the maltreatment of Black American Muslim women. Khadija assesses that “the core problem is Black women’s idolatry. Instead of worshipping God alone, some Black women are worshipping God + the Black man they want to be/stay with + Male Clergy/Religious scholars…” I agree with her assessment, I can feel it when I am watching T.D. Jakes doing his pork chop strut across the pulpit/stage entertaining his mostly female Christian congregation/audience. Or Rod Parsley showcasing his watered down imitation of a Black country minister extolling the virtues of prosperity to his mostly lower middle class to poor Black and white female congregation/audience. Khadija mentions a case of a Muslim wife killing her husband just as a case of murder that was uncovered in the Christian world on July 30th this year. Anthony Hopkins, so called Evangelist, is accused of murdering his wife, cutting her up and storing her body in a freezer in the house for the last four years! Obviously, this male (obviously he is not a Man in the image of The Most High) has serious mental issues. Could his religion have influenced his thinking however warped it may be?
Khadija’s post hit a chord in my mind, something I see as the base for the problem of a male centered and dominated form of worship. Not only am I talking about Islam, but Christianity and Judaism and any other male God centered religion. We can safely say the male God image came into prominence approximately 8,000 to 10,000 years ago,when Sun worship began to be the major influence on humankind. Eventually the worship of the feminine was supplanted by the Hebrew Levites naming Yahweh (YHWH) as the God of Creation. Dr. Yosef Ben Jochonan teaches us that religion is culture deified, and can be witnessed in the cultural life of the people of the so called Middle East, where women of the times were in fact treated as chattel property, and not too differently today. Thus, we have adopted such backwards beliefs as the “male carries the seed” when we speak of reproduction, the male is the “head of the household”, leaving women to defend themselves by saying they are the neck turning or "manipulating" the head. The symbolism of this alone gives us the image of the male on top and the female on the bottom with the female as manipulator. All these symbols and images play a damaging role in the individual psychology and make up of the society. It also speaks against nature. The human brain does not function on an upper and lower hierarchy, but functions within the ebb and flow of left brain-right brain. Day does not seek to struggle against night, nor does the sand stand against the tide but, all work in a systematic flow with their natural function. So, men and women should function within our true and natural state. As long as we, men and women continue to call upon Him and exalt Him alone, the road to abolishing the idolizing of the Black man that she wants to be/stay with will be a long and rocky road.